September 17, 2024

Even though I left my profession more than two years ago, I still battle some guilt and anxiety for not working. On the outside, I see how silly I am because my main motivations to retire early were to enjoy a simpler life, lower my stress level, and travel. I chose this nomadic lifestyle but often punish myself for being too lazy. When I’m not planning adventures or experiencing new places, I sometimes feel like I should be working at a paying job.

Last June, when I was wandering through Oslo’s stunning library, Deichman Bjørvika, I spotted a book in English called Laziness Does Not Exist by Devon Price, PhD. The cover’s bold yellow, orange, and red color blocks caught my attention, as did the title. I snapped a photo, intending to download a copy when I returned to the States in July.

Funny that I would encounter the book in a foreign country. By the way, if you are ever in Oslo, be sure to go inside Deichman Bjørvika. Its exterior is captivating, but the interior is a marvel. You can even buy a coffee or lunch and enjoy the view from the lounge. And, of course, admission is free.

So, back to the book. I finally started listening to the audiobook a couple of days ago. I am currently housesitting on the Big Island of Hawaii. After playing tourist for a week, I am settled in for two weeks in a cozy house with a sweet old cat. I can literally do anything I want with my days as long as I feed the cat, give him some attention, and take care of a few household chores.

The author, Price, coins the term “laziness lie,” citing that we, as Americans, have basically been programmed to believe that we are useless if we are not productive. (If you haven’t read it yet, I highly recommend it.)

A chapter I listened to today spoke to the idea of savoring. Much of the book had resonated with my former overworked, over-stressed self, but this chapter spoke to me today. It gave me permission to enjoy the present moment and savor every little thing:

• The soft fur of this sweet old cat.
• The view of Mauna Kea that appears and disappears as the clouds roll by.
• The taste of fresh local produce.

We all can get wrapped up in comparing ourselves to others and feeling pressure to report our activities on social media. I admit that I think about what to post on Facebook and feel a need to keep my friends entertained with my travel adventures. But really, it doesn’t matter what other people think; I can set aside the pressure and just share what I like.

I’m now going to focus more on savoring and less on guilt. Thanks, Dr. Price!